Ugh, that sounds familiar — my uncle kept accidentally deleting whole chats with insurers and then we’d be scrambling receipts and screenshots for days. I wasn’t trying to “spy” on him, just find a less stressful way to keep threads straight. I came across a roundup of tools people mention for keeping logs and reviewing Messenger history (with consent!): SpyBubble Facebook Messenger Tracker . It helped me think about safe ways to archive or export chats so we could all see the same history without the blame game.