Yeah that cable situation is a total mess. Not all USB-C cables are created equal – some are charge-only with no data wires inside, which is why your controller lights up but doesn't register. I went through the same headache when I first got my DualSense. Turned out the cables that came with my power bank and old Android phones were the culprits. What finally worked consistently was using the official Sony USB-C cable that came in the box, or any high-quality braided cable rated for data transfer (not just charging). Cheap no-name cables from Amazon are basically a gamble. For port checking, try plugging in a flash drive or another peripheral first – if Windows doesn't even recognize those, the port might be faulty or disabled in BIOS. Front panel ports can be hit or miss depending on your case's internal wiring. Once you've got a good cable and confirmed working port, the
DS4 Windows setup guide walks you through the driver installation and exclusive mode settings to avoid double input. That page saved me a ton of trial and error when I was setting up my controller initially.